How can a woman maintain that balance being being sexy and classy without being trashy?

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Sebboh

Women and men are welcome to answer, I enjoy every perspective. What are some ways that a woman can be beautiful and sexy and fun but not cross that line over into being trashy? I mean ways to dress/makeup, actions, behaviors, mannerisms, etc. What tips you off as a woman being sexy in a classy not trashy way?

Answer
-natural makeup (you should use makeup to enhance, not cover your features)
-natural hair
-clothes in darker, seductive colours
-clothing that is a classic cut, nothing too trendy
-classic jewellery
-tailored clothing, nothing too big or too tight
-showing only one piece of skin (ie if you're wearing a short skirt cover up on top and vice versa)
-be knowledgeable and interesting
-have your own sense of self
-not giving it all away at once
-being polite
-not drinking excessively
-not swearing much
-knowing how to tease a man without graphic language or showing your body
-not being the last one to leave a party
-having confidence
-not having to resort to over the top behaviour to get attention

What are the positives and negatives for men possessing 'feminine' qualities in their fashion?

monkey

Such as make-up, costumes(skinny jeans), long hair(emo hair)...
What are the positives and negatives in the fashion development?

Answer
Skinny jeans look alright providing the guy wears them with masculine shoes/tshirt/jacket etc. If the guy wears like yellow shoes or something (which seems to be the trend here in Australia atm) it can really look bloody stupid.

Long hair is alright, but I'm not a fan of the emo thing. I've dated guys with an understated pony tail or just longer hair before and it's been pretty cute. Less is more when it comes to hair. If guys start putting in lots of colours or streaks or cutting it all edgy and weird it can look ridiculous..

I think the 'skinny suit' is a great look for guys, whether it's formal or a skinny jacket with jeans. You know, you should watch the movie 'Alfie' starring Jude Law. The stylist found the perfect balance of style/feminine accents still in a very sexy masculine way. I give his style five stars.

I think the moral of my story is, less is more. Choose one trendy thing to stand out and then wear everything else in an understated way. Then you don't run the risk of looking tragically metro.

I hope this has helped in some way.

Good luck. x

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Why are men becoming more and more brainwashed about female beauty?

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Victoria

I feel like men, ESPECIALLY black men have been brainwashed with "white beauty" and have formed these crazy obsessions with lighter skinned women.

I am becoming more, and more convinced that a black man will choose a basic light skinned girl ANYDAY over a fine dark skinned one.

So why do most men think that the ideal women should have light skin, light eyes, long hair, and slender and curvy? Is it really a preference or the result of brainwashing?

Now be honest guys, would you choose to date a light skinned girl who rated like a 6, or a dark skinned girl who rates a 7?

Answer
Some black men have been conditioned to like light skinned women over dark skinned women because of today's media. It wasn't like this back in the 50s through 90s. It happened when the image of a black women changed to having multiple features of both Eurocentric and Afrocentric features (Halle Berry)

It just so happened that women with these features were either biracial or light skinned. Thus people made the assumption that the only women with Eurocentric and Afrocentric features are biracial and light skinned black women. Those women were then stigmatized as exotic and having a beauty beyond comparison.

The music industry played a vital role in this as well because they are publicly showing this. Not only are they selling their music which may be good or bad, they are selling an image.
---Image of what is trendy (swag, skinny jeans, big booty, big boobs, long hair)
---Image of whats good looking (yellow bone red bone)

That further conditioned black men to admiring light skinned and lighter women.

Personally, this is exactly why I bashed and blame the media for most things. The people that show these things are doing it for marketing reasons and personal reasons. They might not realize that what they are doing is affecting the youth. Ideas get passed down so if we all grow up believing one thing, we're likely to pass that idea down to our kids.


Lastly, I tend to rebel against the image the media portray of people, and the message they are persuading people to believe.
My preference is actually dark skinned black women like this porn actress
http://i.picasion.com/pic76/7e49626608bcfd2b49f3651343f1c42d.gif
(it was extremely hard to find a clean picture, but I did lol)

The media claims that women of that color is unattractive, all I say is less competition for me.
So I would date a dark skinned girl who is a 7, without regrets or hesitation :)

BUT do not get me wrong. I date people who meet my standards of having a good personality, not having a good skin color.
As long as we click positively, I like her. If she got dark chocolate skin, that is a plus.

What's the secret to getting women interested in me?

TheEmpyre

I'm young, attractive, and successful, but I'm never approached by women or hit on by them when I'm in public. What am I doing wrong? I don't have low self esteem but this definitely doesn't help my ego.

Answer
Okay these are some five steps i have prepared for you from my experience as a woman. You complete these 5 steps and by the end of the month you will see yourself running away from all the girls out there.

1- STYLE : I am not going to lie. Looks are important to women. Wear clothes that will get you noticed and get you compliments. Such as white collared shirts ( always open the buttons to your chest) , simple t-shirts with a bright color or cheesy words that will get you noticed, belts over the shirt or chemise your wearing give you a sexy image, neat dark jeans, some sunglasses over your head with a necklace...etc. Make sure the shirts are a little tight so they can fit you and give you a buff composure. So all in all your style should be natural and sexy at the same time.

2- HAIR : The attractive women in our society prefer a modern man who is clean cut, usually shaven and has a trendy hair cut.However don't cut your hair too much, leave it slightly tall so that you can fluff it up or change styles whenever you want. If its curly try straightening it, if its straight try messing it.

3- FACIAL EXPRESSIONS : Have an animated smile on your face all the time. A modern man who attracts women naturally has no reason to look gloomy or angry, so smile. Furthermore, when you smile, people will be drawn to you and it is an excellent way to start a conversation when out and about meeting women. If you saw a woman smiling and another one all gloomy which one will catch your eyes first? see...the smiling one.

4- BODY : Gym! Work out and get a gym membership. Even if you already have a nice body its even better to have packs. Women lovee a guy with a nice body and sexy abs or packs.
Tan ! Tanning can be a great way to get that natural golden look and healthy glow . Pimples! Also if you have any face pimples (woman hate them) make sure to apply a cream on them from any pharmacy.

5- BODY LANGUAGE : Pay attention to your body language Stand up straight (donât slouch), walk slowly and with confidence. Head high ( not moving right and left like a desperate dude) and move your shoulders forward backward while walking. Body language itself will tell others that you are confident without saying you are. Act like you are used to attention and women, act like a showoff. YES a showoff. Woman will see how hard to get you seem and how confident you are. That way you are the challenge.

6- SOCIALLY : So after you have been physically and personally prepared its time for you to approach the women. The guy is always the one to approach a woman. Go to a club with some guy friends spot a cute girl ask her for a dance, go to parties gatherings, group hangouts. With the 5 steps completed above you will confidentially approach any woman. some staring smiling then talking asking for her number etc... Be slim and try not to act desperate.

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How can a woman maintain that balance being being sexy and classy without being trashy?

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Sebboh

Women and men are welcome to answer, I enjoy every perspective. What are some ways that a woman can be beautiful and sexy and fun but not cross that line over into being trashy? I mean ways to dress/makeup, actions, behaviors, mannerisms, etc. What tips you off as a woman being sexy in a classy not trashy way?

Answer
-natural makeup (you should use makeup to enhance, not cover your features)
-natural hair
-clothes in darker, seductive colours
-clothing that is a classic cut, nothing too trendy
-classic jewellery
-tailored clothing, nothing too big or too tight
-showing only one piece of skin (ie if you're wearing a short skirt cover up on top and vice versa)
-be knowledgeable and interesting
-have your own sense of self
-not giving it all away at once
-being polite
-not drinking excessively
-not swearing much
-knowing how to tease a man without graphic language or showing your body
-not being the last one to leave a party
-having confidence
-not having to resort to over the top behaviour to get attention

What are the positives and negatives for men possessing 'feminine' qualities in their fashion?

monkey

Such as make-up, costumes(skinny jeans), long hair(emo hair)...
What are the positives and negatives in the fashion development?

Answer
Skinny jeans look alright providing the guy wears them with masculine shoes/tshirt/jacket etc. If the guy wears like yellow shoes or something (which seems to be the trend here in Australia atm) it can really look bloody stupid.

Long hair is alright, but I'm not a fan of the emo thing. I've dated guys with an understated pony tail or just longer hair before and it's been pretty cute. Less is more when it comes to hair. If guys start putting in lots of colours or streaks or cutting it all edgy and weird it can look ridiculous..

I think the 'skinny suit' is a great look for guys, whether it's formal or a skinny jacket with jeans. You know, you should watch the movie 'Alfie' starring Jude Law. The stylist found the perfect balance of style/feminine accents still in a very sexy masculine way. I give his style five stars.

I think the moral of my story is, less is more. Choose one trendy thing to stand out and then wear everything else in an understated way. Then you don't run the risk of looking tragically metro.

I hope this has helped in some way.

Good luck. x

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